What To Do IF YOU Are Living A Life of Quiet Desperation

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EVERYONE is meant to live a life she or he loves – you can too!

Have you ever awakened in the morning, and noticed yourself wishing that you could sleep longer, because you are not looking forward to the day ahead?

Of course, you have things you NEED to wake up for – a “to do” list that needs to be done. But, how many of the things on your list will compel you to feel excited, joyful and fulfilled?

What if you could look back right now at what 5 or 10 years from now would look like? My hunch is you will find that your accumulative life has been a series of mornings as described above.

You might discover you ‘Woke up, day after day, going through the motions, but never truly feeling ‘enthusiastic, joy, fulfilled and ALIVE.’

Henry David Thoreau called this scenario “a life of quiet desperation.”

After Excitedly and Enthusiastically spending 30+ years helping thousands of people around the world create lives they truly love living, I can attest that EACH AND EVERY PERSON is meant to live a life she/he loves.

Everyone has unique gifts, talents and dreams that are waiting to be born into the world.

The key to creating the life you desire is taking responsibility for each and everything that you believe, think, do or don’t do. You have within yourself everything required to make your life a paradise if you choose to accept that which is your divine birth-right. We live in a Universe of abundance, although the majority of people seem to view it as a Universe of scarcity.

You might not know you have a belief of scarcity. A belief of scarcity will prevent you from creating the life you desire.

Or you might not know you care more about what others think, feel or say about you and when you imagine them as being negative, you can quickly move away from the potential unpleasant emotion you call fear.

Add that to your own negative judgement about yourself if what you are working on doesn’t work out, and now you have a recipe for procrastination, wasting time, and doing less than what you are capable of doing.

In other words… it is a recipe for a mediocre life.

When you understand how to recognize which conscious, unconscious or subconscious fears are holding you back and what the underlying causes for them are, you will be able to eliminate most of them from holding you hostage from achieving your biggest goals and dreams.

To start the process, make a list of 3 of your biggest fears and see if you can discover where they come from. You can mentally go back to a time when a fear seemed to grip you. What were the components/circumstances before and after? In order words connect the dots between the similarities then and now.

Then, ask yourself if you are willing to release those fears. (I hope you say yes!) If not, you need to discover the deep emotional wound that the experience created. It goes without saying some wounds are deeper and more intense than others. So, if you encounter something that is difficult, you might need to ask for professional assistance with a practitioner who does deep healing work at the unconscious and subconscious level. This type work involves hypnosis with a Certified Deep Healing practitioner.

For the next 3-5 days think about and feel your fears. Then make the decision (as you take 6-10 breaths) to eliminate those fears. Eliminating fears is analogous to jumping off the high board into the water. You can’t learn how to jump off the high board without doing it. Take a deep breath and jump into the water of self exploration and transformation.

I know it sounds simple and it is. Yet, there are many contingencies that aren’t easily discovered. Simple trust and faith that you can resolve everything is half way to success.

In order to create the life you desire you need to eliminate all doubt, fear, anger, frustration, angst, shame, guilt, unworthiness, all negative beliefs, thoughts and actions.

Your beliefs, thoughts, feelings, words, and actions are all forms of energy. What you believe, think, feel, say, and do in each moment comes back to you to create your reality. Energy moves in a circle, so what goes around comes around. The combined beliefs, thoughts, feelings, words and actions of everyone on the planet creates our collective consciousness, it creates the world we see before us.

The exciting news is, because your beliefs, thoughts, feelings, words and actions create the world around you, you have the power to create a world of peace, harmony and abundance. In order to do this, it is essential that you learn to control beliefs, thoughts, emotions and actions.

This moment is the first moment of the rest of your life. Are you willing to take the steps required to claim your happiness, success, fulfillment, and enlightenment? Will you take advantage of the opportunity to create a new reality for your life?

It’s time to SHIFT and get prepared for what’s coming up for your life… so I want you to put your heart and soul into paying close attention to how much mental, emotional and physical pain you are in. Then, step by step you can make the SHIFT gently, easily, and without having to deal with the mental and emotional pain and stress of not knowing what to do, not feeling your best, and all the other OLD WAYS that are holding you back.

There is no shame in asking for assistance to create happiness and success. If you have read the books, taken workshops, had psychic readings, taken prescriptions and OTC drugs etc. and still struggle; you might have emotional blocks preventing you from moving into your happiness and desires.

Asking for assistance is an investment in your health, happiness, success, fulfillment, and enlightenment. Following the principles in this process will change your life forever and I want you to experience it yourself as soon as possible. Remember only you can take care of your happiness and emotional, physical and spiritual health.

Source: “The Light Shall Set You Free”(1998)



Source by Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD

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